Discussion Thoughts on women?

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Also I’ve always had women friends in my life, and I think it’s very much plausible to keep them as platonic friends. This is often a given as I often find them not the greatest candidates for dating or marrying, even when lizard brain says otherwise. I am willing to respect relationship commitments, I disagree with race mixing so I dont seek non-latinx girls, and I’ve even have fag friends that I begrudgingly have to leave alone.
I’d also like to note that I dont believe that your instinctual reaction to the opposite sex is inherently programmed within you. I recall an experiment where scientists placed apes in isolation their whole lives to completely strip them away from teaching in favor of instincts. While they are still born with certain instincts like eating(human babies also have this such as with suckling), they could not figure out how to mate when opposite sex ones were encouraged to. Once artificially inseminated, they also could not figure out how to care for children and just left them alone. So I believe that your reaction to women is a product of your growth and teaching rather than your born instincts. If you want to get along better with the opposite sex, you have to make habits certain behaviors which can improve your chances.
 
Soygoy said:
The only thing I dislike about women is the constant sexual tension, perhaps stemming from instinctual nature.
I feel like I'll get hated for saying this but if a man and a woman enter a room theres an extremely high chance they'll both think the exact same thing as soon as they see eachother.
Then they'll say to themselves "What, ew?" and shrug it off as just an intrusive thought and go about their day. You could say that this never happens, but you would be lying, because it happens all the time, especially if a woman happens to be attractive or isn't wearing as much clothing as she should be. You're going to think the very first thing that comes to mind, and then reality / social circumstances set in and you will remain a humble gentleman or something like that.

But a part of me believes that deep down, we're all animals, just animals with a good sense of regulation and control. People used to tell me that we were naturally violent, we just repress it. I used to say that they were wrong, after all, the capacity to do so doesn't inherently mean we're always capable of doing so, but if you think about it, every animal is naturally violent and if you want to put that to the test, just get yourself into a fight or flight situation and see how quickly your peaceful no violence demeanor changes when you have to punch the shit out of someone in a short amount of time.

Back to women: I'd ideally like to see them on the same plane as males, as potential friends and that's possible, but many people say that men and women can't be friends. I wonder if men who stick around women pretend to be friends with them, but in actuality they see themselves as potential options. They build up the trust of women in hopes to eventually claim them as a mate. This sort of deliberation just makes me afraid of the opposite sex, perhaps because it conflicts with things I want to believe.

I want to believe that men and women are equal, but chances are, you'll be really nice to a girl and once you find out she has a boyfriend, you'd be more than correct to leave immediately and not talk to her. But why is that? Is there such thing as an instinctual search for a mate inside of all of us that we try to repress? Because it's socially awkward, it's repulsive? Perhaps it makes you look creepy? I feel like if a girl was unattractive and didn't have a boyfriend, you could be friends with her, she can be one of the boys, but if there is a single attractive woman in a friend group, there may be war, unless she is claimed by a dominant male whom the other males fear, then all is well. To be a male in that situation, you have to subconsciously dominate your mate and also your entire social group.

Ideally, I'd like for men and women to just be friends, but a part of me knows that is ridiculous, opposite sexes exist for a reason and your brain is telling you what it tells you to increase your chances of survival and procreation, it's purely a natural process no matter just how embarassing it is, so unfortunately, to men and maybe even to women, mostly what the opposite sex is good for is for that instinctual desire to find a mate. However, there are fringe cases, like the most obvious being members of your family, but perhaps it is possible for a man and a woman to be best friends, maybe one of them is a homosexual for example and that desire ceases to exist, but chances are, I feel like in our society, if a man and a woman are best friends, they'll get asked or ask themselves the "What if we..?" question and respond with "Eww, what? No!!!" and I wonder how long such a relationship could go on for before either of them realizes one is manipulating the other or one is just an option to the other.

I could be wrong though, I know nothing about socialization and relationships, I don't talk to people in real life and I barely go outside geg. I'm not a fucking scientist, just some creep weirdo.
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Me no read testament
 
^Slut for something two posts above. I am not quite sure what that thing is, but he has to be one. I am sure of it.
 
Stephen said:
Also I’ve always had women friends in my life, and I think it’s very much plausible to keep them as platonic friends. This is often a given as I often find them not the greatest candidates for dating or marrying, even when lizard brain says otherwise. I am willing to respect relationship commitments, I disagree with race mixing so I dont seek non-latinx girls, and I’ve even have fag friends that I begrudgingly have to leave alone.
I’d also like to note that I dont believe that your instinctual reaction to the opposite sex is inherently programmed within you. I recall an experiment where scientists placed apes in isolation their whole lives to completely strip them away from teaching in favor of instincts. While they are still born with certain instincts like eating(human babies also have this such as with suckling), they could not figure out how to mate when opposite sex ones were encouraged to. Once artificially inseminated, they also could not figure out how to care for children and just left them alone. So I believe that your reaction to women is a product of your growth and teaching rather than your born instincts. If you want to get along better with the opposite sex, you have to make habits certain behaviors which can improve your chances.
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steven how do you get friends
its hard now to get them, even male ones
 
Neutralplier said:
steven how do you get friends
its hard now to get them, even male ones
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Most of my friends right now come from back in high or middle school, I havent made any new friends in college yet, but the key is getting familiar with people and letting them become familiar with you
 
Stephen said:
Most of my friends right now come from back in high or middle school, I havent made any new friends in college yet, but the key is getting familiar with people and letting them become familiar with you
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You started college this year?
 
I hate when they small talk and I hate when they crack completely unfunny jokes and fake laugh nervously and then start crying when I get in their face and scream at them that they aren't funny chud front2.png
 
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