She moved a few counties away, her family permanently lives in the U.S. I don’t have contact with her anymore, albeit, as we never exchanged any forms of communication like cell phone numbers.
Discussion Thoughts on women?
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A close friend of mine once told me "The worst part of being a straight guy is dealing with women" and it's resonated with me, they are often annoying and I don't understand how they work but I gotta learn if I want a good life. Doesn't help the type of women I find attractive always have personal and political views I disagree with.
Swede
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Daaeeem, don't make that mistake again, doe she probably visits her family so maybe you could ask them to exchange info
She’s with her family, a few counties away (not to be confused with countries).
Women are alright but you have to talk to them in a certain way and do certain things to make the experience enjoyable
Swede
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I don't know what kind of women you guys speak to but it's a boomer meme that le wife is le annoying just bring me ma beer
I'm esl I can make mistaked, why don't you just drive and ask for some contact info or find her on facebook or something
I’m not interested in getting back to knowing her at the moment (we weren’t getting romantic but I’m content with my current situation and don’t think I’d like a girlfriend at the moment), but we’ll see, I might try and meet back up with her again in the future, if my heart calls me to it.
Swede
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@Aedra_222 jartycucked me for no reason AWARD
Aedra
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I jartycuck reacted you because it's not a boomer meme. It's not exclusive to them.
le wife is le annoying just bring me ma beer
Swede
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yes it is also exclusive to 3rd world where you expect a woman to slave for you
Aedra
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"Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife." as Proverbs in the Bible says. Third world mogs your nordcuck countries btw.
Swede
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Soygoy
I will fight for /anthro/
The only thing I dislike about women is the constant sexual tension, perhaps stemming from instinctual nature.
I feel like I'll get hated for saying this but if a man and a woman enter a room theres an extremely high chance they'll both think the exact same thing as soon as they see eachother.
Then they'll say to themselves "What, ew?" and shrug it off as just an intrusive thought and go about their day. You could say that this never happens, but you would be lying, because it happens all the time, especially if a woman happens to be attractive or isn't wearing as much clothing as she should be. You're going to think the very first thing that comes to mind, and then reality / social circumstances set in and you will remain a humble gentleman or something like that.
But a part of me believes that deep down, we're all animals, just animals with a good sense of regulation and control. People used to tell me that we were naturally violent, we just repress it. I used to say that they were wrong, after all, the capacity to do so doesn't inherently mean we're always capable of doing so, but if you think about it, every animal is naturally violent and if you want to put that to the test, just get yourself into a fight or flight situation and see how quickly your peaceful no violence demeanor changes when you have to punch the shit out of someone in a short amount of time.
Back to women: I'd ideally like to see them on the same plane as males, as potential friends and that's possible, but many people say that men and women can't be friends. I wonder if men who stick around women pretend to be friends with them, but in actuality they see themselves as potential options. They build up the trust of women in hopes to eventually claim them as a mate. This sort of deliberation just makes me afraid of the opposite sex, perhaps because it conflicts with things I want to believe.
I want to believe that men and women are equal, but chances are, you'll be really nice to a girl and once you find out she has a boyfriend, you'd be more than correct to leave immediately and not talk to her. But why is that? Is there such thing as an instinctual search for a mate inside of all of us that we try to repress? Because it's socially awkward, it's repulsive? Perhaps it makes you look creepy? I feel like if a girl was unattractive and didn't have a boyfriend, you could be friends with her, she can be one of the boys, but if there is a single attractive woman in a friend group, there may be war, unless she is claimed by a dominant male whom the other males fear, then all is well. To be a male in that situation, you have to subconsciously dominate your mate and also your entire social group.
Ideally, I'd like for men and women to just be friends, but a part of me knows that is ridiculous, opposite sexes exist for a reason and your brain is telling you what it tells you to increase your chances of survival and procreation, it's purely a natural process no matter just how embarassing it is, so unfortunately, to men and maybe even to women, mostly what the opposite sex is good for is for that instinctual desire to find a mate. However, there are fringe cases, like the most obvious being members of your family, but perhaps it is possible for a man and a woman to be best friends, maybe one of them is a homosexual for example and that desire ceases to exist, but chances are, I feel like in our society, if a man and a woman are best friends, they'll get asked or ask themselves the "What if we..?" question and respond with "Eww, what? No!!!" and I wonder how long such a relationship could go on for before either of them realizes one is manipulating the other or one is just an option to the other.
I could be wrong though, I know nothing about socialization and relationships, I don't talk to people in real life and I barely go outside geg. I'm not a fucking scientist, just some creep weirdo.
I feel like I'll get hated for saying this but if a man and a woman enter a room theres an extremely high chance they'll both think the exact same thing as soon as they see eachother.
Then they'll say to themselves "What, ew?" and shrug it off as just an intrusive thought and go about their day. You could say that this never happens, but you would be lying, because it happens all the time, especially if a woman happens to be attractive or isn't wearing as much clothing as she should be. You're going to think the very first thing that comes to mind, and then reality / social circumstances set in and you will remain a humble gentleman or something like that.
But a part of me believes that deep down, we're all animals, just animals with a good sense of regulation and control. People used to tell me that we were naturally violent, we just repress it. I used to say that they were wrong, after all, the capacity to do so doesn't inherently mean we're always capable of doing so, but if you think about it, every animal is naturally violent and if you want to put that to the test, just get yourself into a fight or flight situation and see how quickly your peaceful no violence demeanor changes when you have to punch the shit out of someone in a short amount of time.
Back to women: I'd ideally like to see them on the same plane as males, as potential friends and that's possible, but many people say that men and women can't be friends. I wonder if men who stick around women pretend to be friends with them, but in actuality they see themselves as potential options. They build up the trust of women in hopes to eventually claim them as a mate. This sort of deliberation just makes me afraid of the opposite sex, perhaps because it conflicts with things I want to believe.
I want to believe that men and women are equal, but chances are, you'll be really nice to a girl and once you find out she has a boyfriend, you'd be more than correct to leave immediately and not talk to her. But why is that? Is there such thing as an instinctual search for a mate inside of all of us that we try to repress? Because it's socially awkward, it's repulsive? Perhaps it makes you look creepy? I feel like if a girl was unattractive and didn't have a boyfriend, you could be friends with her, she can be one of the boys, but if there is a single attractive woman in a friend group, there may be war, unless she is claimed by a dominant male whom the other males fear, then all is well. To be a male in that situation, you have to subconsciously dominate your mate and also your entire social group.
Ideally, I'd like for men and women to just be friends, but a part of me knows that is ridiculous, opposite sexes exist for a reason and your brain is telling you what it tells you to increase your chances of survival and procreation, it's purely a natural process no matter just how embarassing it is, so unfortunately, to men and maybe even to women, mostly what the opposite sex is good for is for that instinctual desire to find a mate. However, there are fringe cases, like the most obvious being members of your family, but perhaps it is possible for a man and a woman to be best friends, maybe one of them is a homosexual for example and that desire ceases to exist, but chances are, I feel like in our society, if a man and a woman are best friends, they'll get asked or ask themselves the "What if we..?" question and respond with "Eww, what? No!!!" and I wonder how long such a relationship could go on for before either of them realizes one is manipulating the other or one is just an option to the other.
I could be wrong though, I know nothing about socialization and relationships, I don't talk to people in real life and I barely go outside geg. I'm not a fucking scientist, just some creep weirdo.
Swede
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Normie guys do the same shit with their guy buddies too GEG
Btw about your longpost, I was friends with girls without any kind of intrusive thoughts (though the weren't my age so maybe that's why) I think it really depends on a which type of individual you are, good post albeit
Chairman
Other only linux user on the blog
We don't actually talk to women, we just read about them in books and on the 'Net.
Soyteen Liker
it's just getting started
Seeing someone as an option doesn't necessarily mean they're *just* an option. I've been very good friends with people I've wanted to bang that haven't wanted reciprocation and vice versa.
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