Discussion Thoughts on women?

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Also my friend says that God might've created women for the sole purpose of testing men's patience.
 
Daaeeem, don't make that mistake again, doe she probably visits her family so maybe you could ask them to exchange info
She’s with her family, a few counties away (not to be confused with countries).
 
Also my friend says that God might've created women for the sole purpose of testing men's patience.
I don't know what kind of women you guys speak to but it's a boomer meme that le wife is le annoying just bring me ma beer
She’s with her family, a few counties away (not to be confused with countries).
I'm esl I can make mistaked, why don't you just drive and ask for some contact info or find her on facebook or something
 
I don't know what kind of women you guys speak to but it's a boomer meme that le wife is le annoying just bring me ma beer

I'm esl I can make mistaked, why don't you just drive and ask for some contact info or find her on facebook or something
I’m not interested in getting back to knowing her at the moment (we weren’t getting romantic but I’m content with my current situation and don’t think I’d like a girlfriend at the moment), but we’ll see, I might try and meet back up with her again in the future, if my heart calls me to it.
 
le wife is le annoying just bring me ma beer
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The only thing I dislike about women is the constant sexual tension, perhaps stemming from instinctual nature.
I feel like I'll get hated for saying this but if a man and a woman enter a room theres an extremely high chance they'll both think the exact same thing as soon as they see eachother.
Then they'll say to themselves "What, ew?" and shrug it off as just an intrusive thought and go about their day. You could say that this never happens, but you would be lying, because it happens all the time, especially if a woman happens to be attractive or isn't wearing as much clothing as she should be. You're going to think the very first thing that comes to mind, and then reality / social circumstances set in and you will remain a humble gentleman or something like that.

But a part of me believes that deep down, we're all animals, just animals with a good sense of regulation and control. People used to tell me that we were naturally violent, we just repress it. I used to say that they were wrong, after all, the capacity to do so doesn't inherently mean we're always capable of doing so, but if you think about it, every animal is naturally violent and if you want to put that to the test, just get yourself into a fight or flight situation and see how quickly your peaceful no violence demeanor changes when you have to punch the shit out of someone in a short amount of time.

Back to women: I'd ideally like to see them on the same plane as males, as potential friends and that's possible, but many people say that men and women can't be friends. I wonder if men who stick around women pretend to be friends with them, but in actuality they see themselves as potential options. They build up the trust of women in hopes to eventually claim them as a mate. This sort of deliberation just makes me afraid of the opposite sex, perhaps because it conflicts with things I want to believe.

I want to believe that men and women are equal, but chances are, you'll be really nice to a girl and once you find out she has a boyfriend, you'd be more than correct to leave immediately and not talk to her. But why is that? Is there such thing as an instinctual search for a mate inside of all of us that we try to repress? Because it's socially awkward, it's repulsive? Perhaps it makes you look creepy? I feel like if a girl was unattractive and didn't have a boyfriend, you could be friends with her, she can be one of the boys, but if there is a single attractive woman in a friend group, there may be war, unless she is claimed by a dominant male whom the other males fear, then all is well. To be a male in that situation, you have to subconsciously dominate your mate and also your entire social group.

Ideally, I'd like for men and women to just be friends, but a part of me knows that is ridiculous, opposite sexes exist for a reason and your brain is telling you what it tells you to increase your chances of survival and procreation, it's purely a natural process no matter just how embarassing it is, so unfortunately, to men and maybe even to women, mostly what the opposite sex is good for is for that instinctual desire to find a mate. However, there are fringe cases, like the most obvious being members of your family, but perhaps it is possible for a man and a woman to be best friends, maybe one of them is a homosexual for example and that desire ceases to exist, but chances are, I feel like in our society, if a man and a woman are best friends, they'll get asked or ask themselves the "What if we..?" question and respond with "Eww, what? No!!!" and I wonder how long such a relationship could go on for before either of them realizes one is manipulating the other or one is just an option to the other.

I could be wrong though, I know nothing about socialization and relationships, I don't talk to people in real life and I barely go outside geg. I'm not a fucking scientist, just some creep weirdo.
 
men who stick around women pretend to be friends with them
Normie guys do the same shit with their guy buddies too GEG
Btw about your longpost, I was friends with girls without any kind of intrusive thoughts (though the weren't my age so maybe that's why) I think it really depends on a which type of individual you are, good post albeit
 
Back to women: I'd ideally like to see them on the same plane as males, as potential friends and that's possible, but many people say that men and women can't be friends. I wonder if men who stick around women pretend to be friends with them, but in actuality they see themselves as potential options. They build up the trust of women in hopes to eventually claim them as a mate. This sort of deliberation just makes me afraid of the opposite sex, perhaps because it conflicts with things I want to believe.
Seeing someone as an option doesn't necessarily mean they're *just* an option. I've been very good friends with people I've wanted to bang that haven't wanted reciprocation and vice versa.
 
Seeing someone as an option doesn't necessarily mean they're *just* an option. I've been very good friends with people I've wanted to bang that haven't wanted reciprocation and vice versa.
I mean true, but that little thought is always there. Men and women might not actually be able to be just friends, it's just a matter of whether or not you're okay with that happening to you personally. But from an outsider's perspective, men who orbit women do it for a very obvious reason. Personally, I think I'm lucky that men are useless and discardable and I have traits that make me ignorable, that's a good thing, but if I ever come across as genuinely desirable to somebody, it sends alarm signals to my head, like I have to run because it goes against my anti-social nature or something like that. That's probably why women are scary to me, I can't imagine how much pain it would bring me to have a woman attempt to court me when in reality, I'm a lot like my father than I realize. His nature, I can understand, but he is a man who knows how to cheat the system and manipulate women, meanwhile I just don't want any trouble. But I won't get too far into it, other than say that I can't love people, I can like people, but nobody is lovable, I have yet to meet a woman who is truly lovable, not even sure what they provide for men apart from sex and comfort and intimacy, if that is all there is to it, then it seems useless and futile to me. As sinful as it is, it makes more sense to me that men and women use eachother for sex, the rest is just baggage to keep that happening, like "Oh, I love you, yes yes I truly dooo!!!" just so a man can keep his pussy, if that makes any sense.

Maybe I'm twisted, not sure if there is such a thing as true love. But I wouldn't have a kid to save my life, I'd be a terrible father, you know? It's why I don't have my own father because whatever it is that controls him to act the way he does, controls me too, it's our nature, but thankfully my mother is loving and caring, but as for me, I'm not. I have to fake empathy sometimes. I don't know, maybe I am empathetic or maybe I have issues with it, it feels like a switch, really and I just say anything to maintain the status quo, or create entirely new personas to navigate conversations in real life. It's whatever, I'm not here to try and figure it out on the internet. Don't think it makes me asexual, just a weirdo.
 
My sister says that the women she knows watch IRL Korean ecchi yaoi in class and they bark as if they were dogs in the halls.
Wouldn't be surprised that this happens especially if they are on the internet a lot.
 
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