Discussion Thoughts on women?

[Fagon]

LDD sweep

 

[NT]

I like to call myself gay because i have not been exposed to women for a long time and i was too scared to talk to them in school. The truth is that while i have psyoped myself into liking men as a way to cope, deep down my heart still begs for a SISA to love. I love women. I love how cute and happy and silly they are. I love SISAs. I was larping to cope. I can't stand it anymore i want to just hold a SISA in my arms I love SISAs i love women i love XX angels

 

[Fortuna]

I like to call myself gay because i have not been exposed to women for a long time and i was too scared to talk to them in school. The truth is that while i have psyoped myself into liking men as a way to cope, deep down my heart still begs for a SISA to love. I love women. I love how cute and happy and silly they are. I love SISAs. I was larping to cope. I can't stand it anymore i want to just hold a SISA in my arms I love SISAs i love women i love XX angels

Why does it matter so much? I've never had a girlfriend and I'm pretty happy.

 

[NT]

Why does it matter so much? I've never had a girlfriend and I'm pretty happy.

It may not matter to you but I assure you that a life without a SISA to love is always going to be poor in quality
I remember bashing on women all the time when i was like 15, pointing out their flaws and calling them evil. Yet i was a complete hypocrite and i failed to realize that i am not perfection myself. There are good women and bad women. There are good men and bad men. I was biased because I was angry which itself was because I didnt realize i was a fucking loser (still am) who didnt want to put in any effort

 

[Fortuna]

It may not matter to you but I assure you that a life without a SISA to love is always going to be poor in quality
I remember bashing on women all the time when i was like 15, pointing out their flaws and calling them evil. Yet i was a complete hypocrite and i failed to realize that i am not perfection myself. There are good women and bad women. There are good men and bad men. I was biased because I was angry which itself was because I didnt realize i was a fucking loser (still am) who didnt want to put in any effort

I don't know. I think I have an OK life.

 

[Steve]

 

[Stephen]

It may not matter to you but I assure you that a life without a SISA to love is always going to be poor in quality
I remember bashing on women all the time when i was like 15, pointing out their flaws and calling them evil. Yet i was a complete hypocrite and i failed to realize that i am not perfection myself. There are good women and bad women. There are good men and bad men. I was biased because I was angry which itself was because I didnt realize i was a fucking loser (still am) who didnt want to put in any effort

Couldnt have said it better myself armalite

 

[NT]

I don't know. I think I have an OK life.

Then that is fine, i am not against you living your life if it makes you happy. You are free to do whatever you want. But i just wanted to tell you that.

 

[Fake20Dollarbill]

I don't know. I think I have an OK life.

Your life is shit according to Chudyard Lynch

 

[Fortuna]

Then that is fine, i am not against you living your life if it makes you happy. You are free to do whatever you want. But i just wanted to tell you that.

I just don't get why some men, mostly incels, obsess over getting a girlfriend as if it will suddenly fix their issues and problems when the reason they can't get a girlfriend is because of aforementioned problems.

 

[Stephen]

Your life is shit according to Chudyard Lynch

WIAHryan I knvvl

 

[Fortuna]

Your life is shit according to Chudyard Lynch

What does that mean?

 

[Stephen]

I just don't get why some men, mostly incels, obsess over getting a girlfriend as if it will suddenly fix their issues and problems when the reason they can't get a girlfriend is because of aforementioned problems.

Duh, it’s a very obvious sign that you’ve overcome those problems so of course they would think about it

 

[Fake20Dollarbill]

What does that mean?

You live in a post industrial hell run by psychopaths trying to turn the entire world into a machine operated by human drones

 

[Fortuna]

Duh, it’s a very obvious sign that you’ve overcome those problems so of course they would think about it

Yes but they think getting a girlfriend will solve their problems, so they will focus on this by any means. Like, looksmaxxing or whatever it's called even if they have a terrible personality and are boring.

 

[Yiaagwababy or whatever]

I decide that they are SISA or something. Idk trans rights are human rights.

 

[NT]

I just don't get why some men, mostly incels, obsess over getting a girlfriend as if it will suddenly fix their issues and problems when the reason they can't get a girlfriend is because of aforementioned problems.

You are right in that relationships arent everything and people can go without them. Some people probably do better without relationships.
I am not saying I am ready for a relationship even though I have expressed my desire to be in one. I understand that it will not fix everything, but what's important to me is that I at least have a goal now, something to work towards, something to give me a sense of direction i guess.
Maybe im being ridiculous and ill revert to my same old mentality the next day, i am not sure but it has happened before with things like this. All i can say for certain is that i want a way out of my currently hellish life in general and the incentive of maybe getting a SISA can help

 

[Fortuna]

You are right in that relationships arent everything and people can go without them. Some people probably do better without relationships.
I am not saying I am ready for a relationship even though I have expressed my desire to be in one. I understand that it will not fix everything, but what's important to me is that I at least have a goal now, something to work towards, something to give me a sense of direction i guess.
Maybe im being ridiculous and ill revert to my same old mentality the next day, i am not sure but it has happened before with things like this. All i can say for certain is that i want a way out of my currently hellish life in general and the incentive of maybe getting a SISA can help

But what I'm trying to say is that focusing on getting a girlfriend will like get you the opposite. It gives off desperate energy. It just doesn't work.

 

[Yiaagwababy or whatever]

You are right in that relationships arent everything and people can go without them. Some people probably do better without relationships.
I am not saying I am ready for a relationship even though I have expressed my desire to be in one. I understand that it will not fix everything, but what's important to me is that I at least have a goal now, something to work towards, something to give me a sense of direction i guess.
Maybe im being ridiculous and ill revert to my same old mentality the next day, i am not sure but it has happened before with things like this. All i can say for certain is that i want a way out of my currently hellish life in general and the incentive of maybe getting a SISA can help

Stop giving opinions, I already decided.

 

[NT]

But what I'm trying to say is that focusing on getting a girlfriend will like get you the opposite. It gives off desperate energy. It just doesn't work.

Except i have made it clear that it is not the primary objective. It's the thing at the top of the mountain, but it's on the same level as everything else really. I won't even let myself attempt to get a SISA before i at least have a job, a car, and an associate degree. That may not sound like much but it's better than being a NEET.

And while I may be a classic example of the whole "grass is greener" mentality, I can't help but observe that (if we're using reddit-tier analogies) you seem to be more of a "crabs in a bucket" guy.
Years ago i would take your messages as an affirmation thing, confirming to me that it doesn't matter. But i have realized that while i won't be living a truly normalfag life ever, i can at least attempt to make the best of my situation.