Discussion Thoughts on women?

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I just don't get why some men, mostly incels, obsess over getting a girlfriend as if it will suddenly fix their issues and problems when the reason they can't get a girlfriend is because of aforementioned problems.
Duh, it’s a very obvious sign that you’ve overcome those problems so of course they would think about it
 
Duh, it’s a very obvious sign that you’ve overcome those problems so of course they would think about it
Yes but they think getting a girlfriend will solve their problems, so they will focus on this by any means. Like, looksmaxxing or whatever it's called even if they have a terrible personality and are boring.
 
I just don't get why some men, mostly incels, obsess over getting a girlfriend as if it will suddenly fix their issues and problems when the reason they can't get a girlfriend is because of aforementioned problems.
You are right in that relationships arent everything and people can go without them. Some people probably do better without relationships.
I am not saying I am ready for a relationship even though I have expressed my desire to be in one. I understand that it will not fix everything, but what's important to me is that I at least have a goal now, something to work towards, something to give me a sense of direction i guess.
Maybe im being ridiculous and ill revert to my same old mentality the next day, i am not sure but it has happened before with things like this. All i can say for certain is that i want a way out of my currently hellish life in general and the incentive of maybe getting a SISA can help
 
You are right in that relationships arent everything and people can go without them. Some people probably do better without relationships.
I am not saying I am ready for a relationship even though I have expressed my desire to be in one. I understand that it will not fix everything, but what's important to me is that I at least have a goal now, something to work towards, something to give me a sense of direction i guess.
Maybe im being ridiculous and ill revert to my same old mentality the next day, i am not sure but it has happened before with things like this. All i can say for certain is that i want a way out of my currently hellish life in general and the incentive of maybe getting a SISA can help
But what I'm trying to say is that focusing on getting a girlfriend will like get you the opposite. It gives off desperate energy. It just doesn't work.
 
You are right in that relationships arent everything and people can go without them. Some people probably do better without relationships.
I am not saying I am ready for a relationship even though I have expressed my desire to be in one. I understand that it will not fix everything, but what's important to me is that I at least have a goal now, something to work towards, something to give me a sense of direction i guess.
Maybe im being ridiculous and ill revert to my same old mentality the next day, i am not sure but it has happened before with things like this. All i can say for certain is that i want a way out of my currently hellish life in general and the incentive of maybe getting a SISA can help
Stop giving opinions, I already decided.
 
But what I'm trying to say is that focusing on getting a girlfriend will like get you the opposite. It gives off desperate energy. It just doesn't work.
Except i have made it clear that it is not the primary objective. It's the thing at the top of the mountain, but it's on the same level as everything else really. I won't even let myself attempt to get a SISA before i at least have a job, a car, and an associate degree. That may not sound like much but it's better than being a NEET.

And while I may be a classic example of the whole "grass is greener" mentality, I can't help but observe that (if we're using reddit-tier analogies) you seem to be more of a "crabs in a bucket" guy.
Years ago i would take your messages as an affirmation thing, confirming to me that it doesn't matter. But i have realized that while i won't be living a truly normalfag life ever, i can at least attempt to make the best of my situation.
 
Except i have made it clear that it is not the primary objective. It's the thing at the top of the mountain, but it's on the same level as everything else really. I won't even let myself attempt to get a SISA before i at least have a job, a car, and an associate degree. That may not sound like much but it's better than being a NEET.

And while I may be a classic example of the whole "grass is greener" mentality, I can't help but observe that (if we're using reddit-tier analogies) you seem to be more of a "crabs in a bucket" guy.
Years ago i would take your messages as an affirmation thing, confirming to me that it doesn't matter. But i have realized that while i won't be living a truly normalfag life ever, i can at least attempt to make the best of my situation.
OK. Sorry for talking about it, I didn't mean to be like that.
 
Except i have made it clear that it is not the primary objective. It's the thing at the top of the mountain, but it's on the same level as everything else really. I won't even let myself attempt to get a SISA before i at least have a job, a car, and an associate degree. That may not sound like much but it's better than being a NEET.

And while I may be a classic example of the whole "grass is greener" mentality, I can't help but observe that (if we're using reddit-tier analogies) you seem to be more of a "crabs in a bucket" guy.
Years ago i would take your messages as an affirmation thing, confirming to me that it doesn't matter. But i have realized that while i won't be living a truly normalfag life ever, i can at least attempt to make the best of my situation.
you are severely mentally ill and pathetic for letting foids control you this much
 
I'm mentally ill for wanting to fulfill my literal biological purpose? That's crazy mayne
obsessing over foids and letting their existence control you is weak behavior. it's self-defeating anyways because foids hate tryhards and they can smell desperation really well.
 
obsessing over foids and letting their existence control you is weak behavior. it's self-defeating anyways because foids hate tryhards and they can smell desperation really well.
At the very least it is better than living a lie as a faggot like i have for years now. though i never really did anything i still feel ashamed about it. it is all part of the rebound process
 
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