Can you elab on this? I know some Christians don’t believe in hell as a place of eternal torture, but simply an eternal separation from God.
Both are the exact same thing, there is literally no difference between the two, as in theology, the state of separation from God is what causes suffering.
Hell in the bible is described as "being far away from God".
The fire and the screams are always images, metaphors used to describe the state of the soul, which is both suffering from the separation from the absolute and only good thing there is : God, and from the internal pain caused by the absence of repentance. From jewish scholars to the Church Fathers, all have understoof it that way. That hell is a physical real place where there is fire is something that was invented by medieval peasants. The soul, creation of the absolute pure, craves the absolute pure. There is nothing more painful than being cut from that.
Hell is not a place you are sent because of your bad actions, it is a place you send yourself to by your refusal to repent. C.S. Lewis wrote a very famous phrase on the subject :
"The gates of hell are locked from the inside". In short, God cannot bear sin, and that which bears sin cannot be close to him. The message of the gospel is that everyone sins, that no one can save himself and that thus all are destined to hell because of our own unrepentent nature. The christian faith is to say that the only way for us to be purified in our nature and soul is for something to take our guilt and to suffer the consequences in our stead, if we accept it.
Those who go to hell are simply those who refuse the free payment given to them. Its not a punishment. It's simply what should happen to everyone in the first place
If you have the slightest understanding of christianity you know who is supposed to have done that : Jesus.
In short, if you accept the payment of Christ, in christian theology, you are saved. Sure, you will sin again, but as long as in your heart you repent, which both an attitude and an act, no sin can ever send you to hell. Repentence is important because if you sin and don't repent, then it's basically throwing the payment of Christ away, or refusing it. Repentence is synonymous to accepting Christ's payment for your sins.
I sin like every day, but even as I sin, I know in my heart I've done something wrong and I honestly feel terrible about it. This is already repentence. Sure, I will later ask for forgiveness in prayer, but my heart already is mourning for my own sin. As said, it is an attitude.
So as long as I simply accept Jesus, there is no reason in my mind to ever question myself about whether I'll go to hell or not. I know I will never, because something else has done it for me.