Thank you
@An Hero for your post. Your post makes it clear that the problem isn't just centralization, they would still have the same tendencies if they self-hosted some open source discord alternative.
Do you have a take on the mythology of obscure platforms being "upstream" of other culture and other platforms? It is fascinating to see it actually happen sometimes.
I think the appeal of the myth is "quirkie"-like: the desire to be part of an obscure but influential club. Like a secret shared in whispers, "All the really good memes on reddit come from a dangerous heckin' imageboardarino..." The desire for your special club to be an oasis, for its discovery to be an adventure or a stroke of luck. The fediversees hate search, but would they hate a "send me to a random site" button? I don't exactly hate this idea. The part where you are culturally influential is less quirkie (they care more about direct social contact, maybe even hate being seen) but doesn't fit the wiki/lore mindset either.