My journal into the end of my future

[baqqrih]

I am sorry that you've fallen into such sadness over your life situation. What I can remind you of, even as I lack my own experience in work and true maturity, for I am still in my youth, some years younger than you, is to not fall into utter despair over all of the struggles you're facing, because there's a savior above who loves you and who wants you to triumph over the toils of the world that its evil state has given us. It won't ever be over until The Lord says so, and right now, His hand may be hovering over that clock, but it ain't touching it, and He knows when He'll stop it, but we don't, and so we must continue to struggle for Him, in part through seeking out labor and working through it, in spite of the aggravation such a challenge will cause us. Let your tears fall to The Lord's hands, and let them grip yours, and help you up. You will find joy in this life, and success, and prosperity, and peace, through this persistent, ever-burning faith in Him.

 

[oxamrazor]

Let the chip fall where they are and do not despair,god has plans for you.

 

[Brainstorm]

Gamble your chips on red and win

 

[Soynic Hedgehog]

Dude, you are literally fucking 20.
We are still literally toddlers at that kind of age, fresh into adulthood and no longer teenagers, my father didn't get his shit together until he was maybe like 35. You can live even if you don't have the best pension, you can live even if you don't have the best home. Adapt to struggle.
You can have a happy existence and life even if for a bit you'll be a "wagie" or whatever word people want to use to make you feel bad for working a job.

Keep up positive, you WILL struggle and there is definetly gonna be alone or very tough times but at the end of such struggle there MUST be atleast something positive. Trust in God's plan.
Friend i do not know you much but listen, there is still time, what happened happened. You will find a wife, you will settle in life and eventually you will feel /calm/ after so much hard work. Listen its good that you actually HAD atleast some sort of plan, that you aren't just a simple follower! That's good. Now you just gotta remake it with what opportunities you have.

NAAW 20? I'm 21 and still living with my parents, ie like a normal zoomer would. Stop thinking you are living 50 years ago.

 

[Neutralplier]

NAAW 20? I'm 21 and still living with my parents, ie like a normal zoomer would. Stop thinking you are living 50 years ago.

YOU'RE UNC STATUS?

 

[Maya]

I'm 21 and still living with my parents

Honestly this is smarter than being a rentfag and bleeding yourself dry

 

[Soynic Hedgehog]

YOU'RE UNC STATUS?

Spoonfeed me

 

[UltraSoyLord]

I don’t care about that, I know I’ll probably make 40k-50k starting out, my worry is I won’t be able to find a job like that out of undergrad and will be forced to take a financial advisor job or wealth management job instead, if I get a relevant job in the corporate finance field I’ll be golden no matter the starting pay, because as you go up you’ll earn a lot more

I feel like every response is you moving the goal post a bit...

 

[UltraSoyLord]

NAAW 20? I'm 21 and still living with my parents, ie like a normal zoomer would. Stop thinking you are living 50 years ago.

You only need to stop living with you family if you have kids... Why spend $20,000 a year on rent and thousands more in utilities? The only reason you should have too much pride to live with family is if you make enough to realistically afford a home, which almost no zoomer can. Multigenerational homes were the norm for most of western history and the idea everyone needs to buy their own overpriced track home is a scam created by the real estate industry.

 

[Soynic Hedgehog]

You only need to stop living with you family if you have kids... Why spend $20,000 a year on rent and thousands more in utilities? The only reason you should have too much pride to live with family is if you make enough to realistically afford as home, which almost no zoomer can. Multigenerational homes were the norm for most of western history and the idea everyone needs to buy their own overpriced track home is a scam created by the real estate industry.

TRVKE that makes real estate jews quake in their boots

 

[Imperator]

Well if you are so scared about not having enough money for rent, maybe you could try staying a few months at a friend's house or family member until you find a good enough job.

 

[Xiuhcoyotl]

I’ve been out of the blog for a while, I’ve been hit with a reality check, there is a possibility that I’ll be a sales guy or a wagecel after college (I’m majoring in finance) only good thing is I have a scholarship that pays for tuition, so I can’t waste my time in college now regardless, but I feel like it’s over for me and I’m not even 20 anymore, I hate everything around me, I hate video games, I hate nature, I hate everything, and to top it all off, I may never get a wife because I prefer introverted women, as a result I am afraid I will disappoint my family, they never got degrees, they own a house with a pool, I’ll be lonely and I might downgrade to an apartment worst case scenario possibly, how pathetic is that? I never gave much thought to it but now I realize, I’ll either need a wife or roommate to keep this house if I don’t hit 100k annually eventually when I get a job (assuming I even get a job related to finance) it seems like my life is doomed before it will truly begin

someone make a slopjak edit of this

 

[oxamrazor]

someone make a slopjak edit of this

>someone make a slopjak edit of this

asshole

 

[DonutHole]

>someone make a slopjak edit of this

asshole

You have COMPLETELY misunderstood the idea of the soysphere. /soy/ is not "hey guys take a look at this funny 'jak ha ha." /soy/ is not Facebook's whiteknighting. /soy/ is not Reddit, Tumblr or 9gag.com. /soy/ is a place for people to be monsters. Disturbing, cold, heedless monsters that they really are. Tsunami kills people in Asia and we laugh. Psychotic emo fulfills her sick desires with her cat and we laugh. A man rapes his grandchildren, we laugh and demand more. Suicide, foul play, genocide- we laugh. Racism, sexism, discrimination, xenophobia, rape and unfounded wrath- we laugh.

We are cruel; we do not forgive; we do not forget; we are the real face of the internet.

 

[Mist]

You only need to stop living with you family if you have kids... Why spend $20,000 a year on rent and thousands more in utilities? The only reason you should have too much pride to live with family is if you make enough to realistically afford as home, which almost no zoomer can. Multigenerational homes were the norm for most of western history and the idea everyone needs to buy their own overpriced track home is a scam created by the real estate industry.

holy this, make some money and whenever you actually find someone, move out. First maybe rent out for a year or two to see how you work together in an environment where you live together and then buy a house together. It is that simple.

 

[FerdinandDist]

oh yeah there’s also another issue, since I’m a second child, my parents will turn 60 soon, so the clock might actually be ticking for me actually to keep the house and I don’t wanna be a burden on my parents while they’re in their 60’s

 

[ISTANBUL]

oh yeah there’s also another issue, since I’m a second child, my parents will turn 60 soon, so the clock might actually be ticking for me actually to keep the house and I don’t wanna be a burden on my parents while they’re in their 60’s

Try not to think about that unless they actually call you out for being a burden, it's not worth the added stress.

 

[FerdinandDist]

Than don’t. You are 21, you aren’t pigeonholed into any 1 path. If the idea of a career is so horrific to you that it causes this much dread, it’s probably a bad idea to go through with it. I know people who are happy they worked 40 years in a warehouse and surgeons who went through medschool just to quit it all before they were even 30. Do some soul searching and find a skill. Buy a lawnmower and become a landscaper. Get a CDL and drive trucks. Get an entry level lab assistant job and use it to become a scientist proper. Find a job overseas. If your life is over, you might as well do something crazy. Take control of your life and stop letting the tides of society blindly carry you into a career you won’t last a year at.

I’m 19 btw

 

[Xiuhcoyotl]

 

[DonutHole]

oh yeah there’s also another issue, since I’m a second child, my parents will turn 60 soon, so the clock might actually be ticking for me actually to keep the house and I don’t wanna be a burden on my parents while they’re in their 60’s

just give up, sell the house, buy an RV and be a hobo.