do not use 'fe queens as examples of real women. they are fucking shut in women who have a distorted view of reality, and most of the time have no real life friends. Go out and talk to women, pretend to be centrist, say you arent religious, shoot your ego down and realize that no one gives a shit that you hate niggers. if she has a heckin transqueen friend, do not look at the pictures, and in your mind think of them as the most beautiful man/woman (what they want you to call them) so you NEVER slip up. If she has a gay friend, hes just straight waiting for her to let him fuck her.
Play dumb about EVERYTHING, if you think shes doing something behind your back, take note of it but dont act on it. if you see a message on her phone from another dude, pretend you didnt see it, and DONT CHANGE YOUR BEHAVIOR BECAUSE OF IT.
Once you know shes talking to other dudes just use her for sex and dont get attatched, otherwise itll hurt when you gotta split.
dont rush relationships, always keep them after you and tell them you arent ready for a relationship yet because your ex was very manipulative and you need some time to heal. By doing this you can always love bomb and give them hope of a relationship "soon", always promise them a life together, use social media to your advantage, send her those posts about "us" and having kids or getting married, show her a list of baby names on your notes app (download it from google and just copy paste the last ones to the top). Make her think you're the solution to all her life problems, once you have hooked her enough she will become a victim of the sunk cost fallacy, but its her time with you. Leave shit at her house that you dont care about, like clothes and stuff, a condom wrapper (open) below her bed, or behind her desk, if she doesnt drink often, leave a beer in her fridge with your name sharpied on it. You have to leave your mark everywhere you go, so she thinks youre in it for the long run, and not just sex. Dont play victim too much though, these are women were talking about, they dont bend when you play the victim, they wont say sorry or change in front of you, but behind your back they might change.
TLDR: these hoes aint shit, stay toxic