Rant Ex-furry here, never become a furry

Autistic hobby, but better
Also your a scalie which is freaky
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I can say the same, better put your focus on something much more productive like FL Studio or learning something rather than ERPing on F-List and on /trash/
 
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I dated a furry thinking i could fix her or that she'd grow out of it. Somehow it only ever got worse...
 
How much worse?
She was pretty chill when i met her, just liked the art and had some irl furry friends.
Then the fetish shit ramped up, she'd start wearing tails and ears in public, and she started spending the whole day on discord erp'ing when i left.
Also she started hinting at loli/cub shit in the end. Looking back at what i know about discord now, it's extremely concerning.
Oh, and she tried getting me into ddlg shit and I outright called her a freak

Don't mean to keep posting about my exes, i just keep finding threads where it's relevant i guess.
 
She was pretty chill when i met her, just liked the art and had some irl furry friends.
Then the fetish shit ramped up, she'd start wearing tails and ears in public, and she started spending the whole day on discord erp'ing when i left.
Also she started hinting at loli/cub shit in the end. Looking back at what i know about discord now, it's extremely concerning.
Oh, and she tried getting me into ddlg shit and I outright called her a freak
i mean
theres some ups to that. but the downs outweigh the ups.
 
Definitely. Obviously it was worth it enough for me to bother trying at all. She was so cool at first
you have to stay clear of those hypersexual girls, i'll say. especially the cord ones who do fucking erp nigga like das a red flag if i ever saw one i would back the fuck away from that rq
i mean if she was a furfag and she was just looking for some wholesome boyfriend to erp with irl and fulfill her fantasies that'd be fine but she seems like she lives in it, she overshares it and it extends over the barriers of love and leaks onto the internet, onto discord, so much so that the relationship honestly just sounds toxic, too reliant on sex and not love and honestly destined to die, getting nowhere even close to marriage.

i've always admired and hated artists for being great at what they are capable of doing but shit at controlling themselves and using it for good, most of them make money off of drawing pornography, which is honestly quite terrible in my opinion.
 
you have to stay clear of those hypersexual girls, i'll say.
I was a young coomer, so this didn't really occur to me until the pedoshit and e-cheating. I thought it was awesome, if not a little annoying.
Completely agree though. I "needed" a gf so badly that i went full retard, now I respect myself too much to be with anyone like that (i think).
 
I was a young coomer, so this didn't really occur to me until the pedoshit and e-cheating. I thought it was awesome, if not a little annoying.
Completely agree though. I "needed" a gf so badly that i went full retard, now I respect myself too much to be with anyone like that (i think).
im glad i didnt go through any of that at all honestly, if i were younger i would have probably wanted so badly to be in your position, but ofcourse i think we now both know just how much of a disaster that is. if you want to be with someone, you should probably weigh your existing relationship with them and the qualities they have and whether they are marriage material. if you're really good friends with someone chances are you could probably transition into a higher level of relationship easily as time goes on, that's how it usually goes in my mind, but these days people are just looking to get into that kind of relationship with no ground work, often trying to ease into it immediately with sex, when something like that should only occur months into a relationship.

i suppose i have an interesting viewpoint to some, that as a man, if you want a gf, you should be dating your girl friend. as in, your female friend, because that's what that is, right? its a friend with a higher level of intimacy, and if you can't have a good friend in that relationship then i can garruntee it wouldn't be a great relationship at all. this kind of thing is why friendship is so important to me, it's better than anything else and people stick together without feckle things like sex and fetishes and stuff, its why being friends with men is so easy in comparison to being friends with women where quite honestly i try to be nice but not too nice just to make sure that they don't go thinking weird things and then assuming im sucking up to them for some reason that im not but then again that's just my anxiety assuming how i think other people might react and think and feel, but that anxiety around women is why i often tend to just stay away from them because it's not worth it and i don't want to feel weird and i can garruntee that nobody really wants to feel weird like that.

but despite that, in my mind, the best relationships come from a place of trust and belonging, not from a place of sexual gratification.
t. no relationship experience at all. geg.
 
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