Rant Ex-furry here, never become a furry

im glad i didnt go through any of that at all honestly, if i were younger i would have probably wanted so badly to be in your position, but ofcourse i think we now both know just how much of a disaster that is. if you want to be with someone, you should probably weigh your existing relationship with them and the qualities they have and whether they are marriage material. if you're really good friends with someone chances are you could probably transition into a higher level of relationship easily as time goes on, that's how it usually goes in my mind, but these days people are just looking to get into that kind of relationship with no ground work, often trying to ease into it immediately with sex, when something like that should only occur months into a relationship.

i suppose i have an interesting viewpoint to some, that as a man, if you want a gf, you should be dating your girl friend. as in, your female friend, because that's what that is, right? its a friend with a higher level of intimacy, and if you can't have a good friend in that relationship then i can garruntee it wouldn't be a great relationship at all. this kind of thing is why friendship is so important to me, it's better than anything else and people stick together without feckle things like sex and fetishes and stuff, its why being friends with men is so easy in comparison to being friends with women where quite honestly i try to be nice but not too nice just to make sure that they don't go thinking weird things and then assuming im sucking up to them for some reason that im not but then again that's just my anxiety assuming how i think other people might react and think and feel, but that anxiety around women is why i often tend to just stay away from them because it's not worth it and i don't want to feel weird and i can garruntee that nobody really wants to feel weird like that.

but despite that, in my mind, the best relationships come from a place of trust and belonging, not from a place of sexual gratification.
t. no relationship experience at all. geg.
You understand what true love is, and don't think i don't understand that either.
 
You are no better
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yeah
if malzy_moo wants to be an animal, let xher be an animal. we should also treat malzy like an animal.
animals cannot speak, therefore i think malzy needs a permamute and can only reply with barking or meowing noises.
>turbo autist is speaking again
 
t. no relationship experience at all. geg.
And yet, you already know all the things that i had to learn through experience (and learn very slowly). There are 40 year olds on their 3rd marriage that don't understand this shit as well as you do, it's impressive.
 
And yet, you already know all the things that i had to learn through experience (and learn very slowly). There are 40 year olds on their 3rd marriage that don't understand this shit as well as you do, it's impressive.
He probably learned from mom and dad, moms and dads are very wise people
 
He probably learned from mom and dad, moms and dads are very wise people
And yet, you already know all the things that i had to learn through experience (and learn very slowly). There are 40 year olds on their 3rd marriage that don't understand this shit as well as you do, it's impressive.
my mother has been through bad relationship after bad relationship and my dad is an insecure guy who's bad at being a father so most of what i know is learnt through observing and in general being too autistic to even enter a love relationship simply because i haven't been able to actually be friends with someone long enough for that to happen and even the times i have, well, i'm not gay. i don't get why people want a gf or bf anyways, theres better things than sex, like art and projects and furthering yourself as a person, etc. socializing, friends, etc.

if sex is not what you want but love is what you want, then that's an even harder thing to accomplish, for me atleast because idek what that is, but like i said, it's friendship + intimacy and men and women are very very different so getting to that stage can be quite difficult. for me personally im just not interested at all, i'd rather chill with some homies than have foids come in and ruin everything
 
my mother has been through bad relationship after bad relationship and my dad is an insecure guy who's bad at being a father so most of what i know is learnt through observing and in general being too autistic to even enter a love relationship simply because i haven't been able to actually be friends with someone long enough for that to happen and even the times i have, well, i'm not gay. i don't get why people want a gf or bf anyways, theres better things than sex, like art and projects and furthering yourself as a person, etc. socializing, friends, etc.

if sex is not what you want but love is what you want, then that's an even harder thing to accomplish, for me atleast because idek what that is, but like i said, it's friendship + intimacy and men and women are very very different so getting to that stage can be quite difficult. for me personally im just not interested at all, i'd rather chill with some homies than have foids come in and ruin everything
1: Best not to use autisim as an exucse
2: Sex will most likely be NOTHING next to finally stealing the NA engined production car speed record from McLaren, i should draw more cars.
 
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