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i wouldn't identify with a term like incel because finding a woman is all in god's hands, as is every other situation on this earth, so the way i've found that things work for my own self is that he'll give me the signal in my head that i like a girl and then bless me with the confidence to soon enough speak with her on whatever time he's planned as he wills. to apply this to my own current "love situation", i sit next to this really adorable bulgarian immigrant girl in a geography class i take and we already get along great, and i know god has given me that blessing of initial infatuation from how i see her and look forward to her presence every day that i sit with her, so now i must simply ride out the process by continuing to live through life until i am soon blessed with an opportunity granted by god to speak to her in a convenient location that will only be given to me from god's own will, and if it never does happen, god simply never meant for it to occur, so i must simply trust in him on whatever other emotion or feeling he blesses me with when it comes to relations with women
doe i feel quite confident in asking this lady out soon, i think god is telling me that things will work out with her if i just give things time and let my friendship with her grow a bit longer
so, perhaps in your life, indeed, god simply hasn't yet willed for you to gain a wife, but his timing is perfect since he is the master of all, and all things happen ultimately to draw you to him, so perhaps all of these years in inceldom have really been his way of getting you to learn about yourself and to eventually disavow things like caring so passionately about getting lusty with a lady so that you eventually find him, and from that, his sacred guidance. god bless you
 
Incel said:
They all say this, yet practice proves otherwise.
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"all say this". Alright so some people are ready to die for their faith as martyrs, ready to live the worst torture mankind has ever invented not to go to apostasy, but oh for sex, that's a different story, no one is able to fight THAT off. You shouldn't judge people like that. If your faith is weak, that's your own problem.
Convince yourself if you need to, nothing of what I will say will change your mind on me or on yourself it seems.
Be aware of self fulfilling prophecies though, with such an attitude you will inevitably prove yourself right.
 
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