then you should let people choose to be exempt from it. maybe i am getting too worked up about this considering i didnt realize such a simple solution earlier.
ask people before you talk about them in your cuckdiary. if they don't respond in a few days, don't include them.
the only logical reason you wouldn't agree to what i've just said is that there wouldn't be anybody to write about, and clearly that's not the case. is that fair?