Hello, and welcome. Thank you for stopping by my channel. I am mistressma nurture, conscious kink educator, alternative lifestyle coach, and activist for legalizing decriminalizing sex work across the globe. Now today, I am going to begin to delve into a very, very loaded and very controversial topic. And one of the things that I want to really make clear here is that I see the activism and a push or pull towards social justice as absolutely a very it's our worthy worthy cause.
I do believe that when we are working towards our ideal, sometimes what we do is we'll just shut things down because they are problematic. Right? And this is the case in in what we've been talking about in cuckolding and the a variation of or a form of cuckolding that includes interracial, interracial tones, interracial play. And in for the most part, it is a bull who is black and more endowed, better endowed than the white cuckold who is, who is the submissive. And the, cuckold dress, the the hot wife or the dominant woman, is in the role of, romantic sexual partnership with the man who is black.
Now I want you to notice that I made a very, very clear distinction when I'm talking about people. One of the questions that came up in the comments lately was asking me personally if I had ever had sex with a BBC. Now there's 2 things that are kind of problematic there. The first one is is that's a really personal question and not one that I'm going to be discussing on YouTube. Thank you very much.
Secondly, the biggest problem with it is aside from the personal, nature of it is that I don't is that that just took the humanity out of a human being. Right? Like, I don't have sex with BBC. Nobody has sex with BBC. People have sex with people who have certain attributes.
Right? You don't have sex with big tits. You have sex with a woman who has big tits. Okay. So do you get the distinction here?
One of the most problematic parts of this whole fetish or movement is that it dehumanizes by making the the bull into just one body part. Right? And and that in and of itself is problematic. So I want to really encourage all of us really well intentioned white people who are excited about interracial relationships and play to invite consciousness into what you're doing. Be aware of the different dynamics that are at play when you bring an interracial element into your play, when you are existing, when you are operating within in any in any way.
Right? I am saying that when we're gonna play in the realm of interracial, when we live in a racist society, we've gotta be conscious. We've gotta be aware, and we've got to bring in the elements of of positivity, of humanity, of dignity and respect. We need to bring these even when we're degrading. Right?
Like, even when it's a humiliation scene, that root, that core of dignity and respect is necessary in order for it to be ethical play. Okay? So with that, I'm gonna I'm going to keep this video pretty short. We're going to be hitting all of these different elements. And so just in this one segment, it is really about the humanity of play partners, the humanity of the people that you are playing with and being very conscious and aware that these are human beings.
Even though we're calling ourselves cocks, we're calling ourselves bulls, we're calling ourselves hot wife. Right? There's a humanity here, and that is the first thing I would really encourage anyone who's playing black, white, it doesn't matter, the awareness of the awareness of the humanity in every single being involved in the dynamic. Alright. In the next segment, I'm gonna talk a little bit about the transformational power of conscious kink in in trauma and in healing.
Okay? So I look forward to seeing you in the next segment. Until then, humanity is the element that I would love for you to be just conscious, aware of, meditate upon it. What does bringing humanity into your play, into your cuckold play, what does that mean to you? And what does that mean for you as a player within it?
Alright. Until next time, my darlings, thank you so much. Give a like, subscribe, click the button above and