Discussion I struggle at making friends, AMA

Mist said:
Okay, if you are new to campus find other people who are also new, naturally everyone needs friends and try to find people who might just appear as if they're new and look interesting, in your class talk with everyone, and ask for their interests, if something clicks just keep talking on breaks or whatever, talk with everyone, see what shit sticks to the wall. You might not feel like some people click to you but still try to have conversations because everyone has interesting stuff to talk about.
It isn't hard to find friends, you just need luck to find the right people in the right places and at the right time. Be outgoing, be positive, and you'll for sure find guys to hang out with. Maybe when there's a group of people in your class just approach them and join their conversations, ask to join the friend groups of some people you might already know, maybe try to go on trips with them and do interesting shit. Time and people having jobs and work might be a problem doe.
It's the same shit with finding a girlfriend. You need luck but also be outgoing, interesting and if you're that type of dude a little bit of
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wouldn't really say that its a good advice... some things are true but unfortunately its not as easy as you say
the thing i'd reccomend is if youre still at school just wander around and try to find someone who looks either lonely or interesting

remember one thing: no one will talk to you first unless you do. never be shy. even if the answer is no, it's okay, don't be afraid of a negative reaction

wouldn't reccomend to go into big groups, they usually have their local stuff to talk about. ofc its really nice if you make your own one or someone from ur friends would invite you buuuut fistly you need to find someone, dont you?

If someone invites you to go with them, say yes. if they are good and interesting people stay with them, if it's not the case then find others.
if you have at least one friend that has friends try to contact with their friends too

I don't know if its a good advice or not, but I adjust to people and their character, if they are positive i become positive too, if they are depressed im trying to act more depressing too, if they are honest to me i become honest to them too if theyr not then im not etc

COURSES a very nice thing to find people besides school ! However, you may also join some school clubs, very nice thing to do too.
Especially some art stuff... music, dances, singing classes etc...

Internet helps a lot, I found my best friend thru one bot on telegram, but I should emphasize that it's a little difficult if you want to find someone adequate in there haha

With relationship it's even harder.. it's another topic with other advices.


In conclusion... do not stay home all the time, try to go outside around different places. Be also an open person with interests and nice character.
 
>Can't make friends
>Was groomed into being a femgoy in the past
>Anime PFP
>"Aryan" alt-right LARPer now.
Is this nigga even real
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Mist said:
Okay, if you are new to campus find other people who are also new, naturally everyone needs friends and try to find people who might just appear as if they're new and look interesting, in your class talk with everyone, and ask for their interests, if something clicks just keep talking on breaks or whatever, talk with everyone, see what shit sticks to the wall. You might not feel like some people click to you but still try to have conversations because everyone has interesting stuff to talk about.
It isn't hard to find friends, you just need luck to find the right people in the right places and at the right time. Be outgoing, be positive, and you'll for sure find guys to hang out with. Maybe when there's a group of people in your class just approach them and join their conversations, ask to join the friend groups of some people you might already know, maybe try to go on trips with them and do interesting shit. Time and people having jobs and work might be a problem doe.
It's the same shit with finding a girlfriend. You need luck but also be outgoing, interesting and if you're that type of dude a little bit of
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that is NOT how people make friends or something
 
AryanCrusader said:
update: you guys did somewhat well with advice, and I am a currently friends with some girl at my college.
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Aryan, date her up if she seems interesting. You never know what can happen.

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Swede said:
I don't fucking know I don't have any
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>I don't have any
Then get some man, you'll be stuck in this loop of being lonely until you actually man up and talk to people.
 
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