He says love your wives, not whores. A whore isn't worthy of respect. You quoted a lot of Bible verses that doesn't contradict anything the saints say. You should also quote the part where it says this if you want to be an honest man, and not a westernized hypocrite.
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I know this verse. I don't argue against it.
I believe wives should submit to men, that women should not teach in Church, et cetera. But I also believe what Paul tells me about the equality born from the life in Christ, and I also respect the most important of saints : Mary, and recognize the respect Jesus had for women around him. And again, as Genesis says, men and women are built for one another.
And about Church Fathers, always remember that whatever they say outside of councils, even if wise, is not infaillible. They may be subject to error, unlike what is daid and decided in councils, and the whole Bible has been declared in coucils as being inspired by God.
Also, this still doesn't mean you don't owe respect and love to people, even "whores".
You have to condemn them, never approve of what they do.
If they are christians, deny them communion until they repent, if they've commited crimes, punish them for it.
But to the woman who commited adultery and was about to be stoned, Jesus himself said, after all left at his order "That the one who never sinned cast the first stone" : "Then I do not condemn you myself. Go and sin no more".
All and all, I do agree with you if your claim is that sin as a whole is to be condemned. Yes. But the sinner must still be loved, as Jesus loved them. Some modern christians, especially online converts absolutely hate the quote of Jesus saying "love your ennemy", but it is a bible verse nonetheless, no matter how many "westoid" insults you throw at me.
Sin must be hated, not the sinner.