doddermodd
EFL Beatsaber Gerontophile
>Dating as a catholic isnt easy as a young (19) woman in the boonies. i was very happily surprised to see a young man i mever seen before at church. after service he approached me and we had some really good smalltalk. the week after that we chatted once again and it went great! then in the next week again he asked to get some coffee together and i was over the moon! finally a date and finally a man who seems like a fellow catholic. we scheduled to grab some coffee at tuesday.
>So i had some time and i did some digging about this guy on twitter and it was…weird…his profile instantly read „tradcath, groyper, nationalist, DEUS VULT!“. i cringed but dug a little deeper and saw that he followed many alt right pundits and stuff which made me uncomfortable. still i thought „well he himself didnt write anything racist so lets give him a chance“ oh boy
>so now at tuesday the date begins, and its off to a decent start. but then the topics begin to shift. first he really talked very long on the crusades and how right they were and how a new crusade would be a good idea
>later it shifted to politics unfortunately and it went from bad to worse. its one thing laughing at some woke fad but he like railed against non conservatives for what feels like hours (he didnt even really adress local politics just stuff from the US)
>Then came what really made me upset. since its pride month he mentioned lgbt people and of course the f-word fell, which made me really angry as someone who knows people who have SSA and stay abstinent. i got visibly angry and told him how his tirade is against the catechisms teaching that we should respect people despite their sins. but still he wouldnt stop and started getting into conspiracy theories on how it is a socialist ploy to „destroy the west“ by reducing birth rates and import immigrants. at this point i had and stood up and clearly said that i dont want to date people who clearly deny catholic teachings. he didnt show up to mass the next time
>overall this left me pretty distraught. a bad first date is one thing but this made me worry about the future of young catholics. this cant be the future right? to espouse borderline nazi nonsense while claiming to be christian
