Soy Dating advice

[Sir Reginald Brownpill]

Help me out. I never had feelings for someone and I don't think I will anytime soon thanks to my autism, HOWEVER I want to start a family in order to save the white race. I know, very autistic, but it's what I honestly feel.
>UMM... YIKSERINO... YOU WANT TO START A FAMILY WITHOUT LOVE? THAT'S BACKWARDS LOGIC! THAT'S AGAINST SCIENCE!
Pretty much. So how do I "learn" to love? Or is there something fundamentally wrong with my brain and the only cure is -ACK!ing?

 

[Bobr]

You really don't feel love? There has to be someone that you have love for, most men will love women on the spot and imagine marrying them before even speaking to them

 

[adrenochrome drinker]

Everyone needs love, soyence has proven that babies will die unless they get love.

 

[Sir Reginald Brownpill]

You really don't feel love? There has to be someone that you have love for, most men will love women on the spot and imagine marrying them before even speaking to them

I'm not saying this to be edgy, but no. The only thing I feel when I see a pretty girl is a desire to fuck her, which isn't exactly love. I can't imagine spending my entire life in a stable marriage with a girl, you know? I can't even imagine pretending to feel something in order to ask one out in order to get to know her better.

 

[Bobr]

I'm not saying this to be edgy, but no. The only thing I feel when I see a pretty girl is a desire to fuck her, which isn't exactly love. I can't imagine spending my entire life in a stable marriage with a girl, you know? I can't even imagine pretending to feel something in order to ask one out in order to get to know her better.

Some weird mental condition is probably giving you that then, I doubt it's only autism because I know autistic people and they feel love. What do you want out of the relationship the most? Like domination, desire to pass knowledge, want a permanent friend that's female, relieve sexual desire. My emotions are the opposite of yours, I feel sick if I try to sexualize a woman, I want nothing more than to procreate and to have a cute loving wife.

 

[Sir Reginald Brownpill]

What do you want out of the relationship the most? Like domination, desire to pass knowledge, want a permanent friend that's female, relieve sexual desire.

Yes, I do want companionship and emotional fulfillment. But like I said, for the most part I can only see it as a means to an end. I feel lonely and want to fill that hole in my chest, but I know I can't rely on a relationship for that. I hear having children is the greatest feeling in the world, and I want to experience that. Molding a little piece of me into the exact opposite of what my father and I are.

 

[Bobr]

Yes, I do want companionship and emotional fulfillment. But like I said, for the most part I can only see it as a means to an end. I feel lonely and want to fill that hole in my chest, but I know I can't rely on a relationship for that. I hear having children is the greatest feeling in the world, and I want to experience that. Molding a little piece of me into the exact opposite of what my father and I are.

>means to an end
Are you nihilistic? Religion is a good thing to get into, it's a very strong drive and is fun to study. It can be any religion but just study it thoroughly and without bias.

I don't really have experience in girls, but just don't allow yourself to feel desperate or pressured, men are fertile until they're like 60. Be successful n stuff

 

[Sir Reginald Brownpill]

>means to an end
Are you nihilistic? Religion is a good thing to get into, it's a very strong drive and is fun to study. It can be any religion but just study it thoroughly and without bias.

I don't really have experience in girls, but just don't allow yourself to feel desperate or pressured, men are fertile until they're like 60. Be successful n stuff

Nihilistic? Fuck no, I'm catholic. I go to church regularly. But I can't get myself to pray or read the Bible though. I feel like praying "premade" prayers like Our Father is insincere but the words don't come out when I try coming up with something on my own. But I can work with that and open my "third eye", so to speak, my spirituality. Eventually.

I am far from desperate, I just feel crushed with hopelessness. And no, I want to have children while young, lest they be born cursed with freaky genetic disorders, not the least of which is, indeed, autism. I could get into the Science of it but let's leave it for another post. And women won't be making lines to marry a 40 year old virgin either.

 

[Bobr]

Nihilistic? Fuck no, I'm catholic. I go to church regularly. But I can't get myself to pray or read the Bible though. I feel like praying "premade" prayers like Our Father is insincere but the words don't come out when I try coming up with something on my own. But I can work with that and open my "third eye", so to speak, my spirituality. Eventually.

I am far from desperate, I just feel crushed with hopelessness. And no, I want to have children while young, lest they be born cursed with freaky genetic disorders, not the least of which is, indeed, autism. I could get into the Science of it but let's leave it for another post. And women won't be making lines to marry a 40 year old virgin either.

Why do you feel hopeless?

 

[Sir Reginald Brownpill]

Why do you feel hopeless?

I just do, ok?
Because of my lack of social skills. I consider myself attractive though, so that's not an issue. And if I felt love for a girl, it'd be easier for me to feel confident enough in approaching her. Because I'd know I would never "have enough" of her. But I can only pretend.

 

[Bobr]

I just do, ok?
Because of my lack of social skills. I consider myself attractive though, so that's not an issue. And if I felt love for a girl, it'd be easier for me to feel confident enough in approaching her. Because I'd know I would never "have enough" of her. But I can only pretend.

Same. I struggle intensely with social skills too, I haven't had a friend irl since 3 years ago

 

[Sir Reginald Brownpill]

Same. I struggle intensely with social skills too, I haven't had a friend irl since 3 years ago

Tell me more. I made it to university and I've been talking to some people, and it feels lime like it's a completely new chapter in my life. I could finally leave the embarassing shit I did as a kid behind. It's like I'm a new person entirely, because people aren't judging me for what I did.

 

[Bobr]

Tell me more. I made it to university and I've been talking to some people, and it feels lime like it's a completely new chapter in my life. I could finally leave the embarassing shit I did as a kid behind. It's like I'm a new person entirely, because people aren't judging me for what I did.

I was held back during my second year of middle school, I lost all of my friends, whom I weren't really close to anyways and my best friend. After that I moved my social life to the internet, and everyone I've been with online has also been negative and have all left me besides a few. I don't struggle with talking, but I can't bond with anyone, and I speak to nobody aside from a few nice groups on the internet. Everyone I've been friends with has been shit and I'm too afraid of social situations and the threat of being abandoned to try anymore. Also how they might react to my personality, my interests, etc

 

[Sir Reginald Brownpill]

I was held back during my second year of middle school, I lost all of my friends, whom I weren't really close to anyways and my best friend. After that I moved my social life to the internet, and everyone I've been with online has also been negative and have all left me besides a few. I don't struggle with talking, but I can't bond with anyone, and I speak to nobody aside from a few nice groups on the internet. Everyone I've been friends with has been shit and I'm too afraid of social situations and the threat of being abandoned to try anymore. Also how they might react to my personality, my interests, etc

Well I've used the internet from a very early age, but fortunately I steered clear of tranny forums and stuff. I only ever played games. Not that that didnt stunt my soycial development and turn me into a retard. Around 2017 though I started to use Trooncord thanks to Cash Royale. But let's leave that for later.

I don't struggle with talking either, and I also seem to struggle to form bonds, but I think I can at least pretend I do. But love is another story... Marriage is a lifelong commitment.

Honestly though I believe that if people like you early on they won't mind your interests, it depends on how and when you present them. You start with the good things, just don't hide the bad ones for too long. I havent told anyone that I spend all day every day staring at screens yet, for instance. I havent told much about myself, I know there's a lot of room for improvement.

 

[SprokemowerMan]

Nihilistic? Fuck no, I'm catholic. I go to church regularly. But I can't get myself to pray or read the Bible though. I feel like praying "premade" prayers like Our Father is insincere but the words don't come out when I try coming up with something on my own. But I can work with that and open my "third eye", so to speak, my spirituality. Eventually.

I am far from desperate, I just feel crushed with hopelessness. And no, I want to have children while young, lest they be born cursed with freaky genetic disorders, not the least of which is, indeed, autism. I could get into the Science of it but let's leave it for another post. And women won't be making lines to marry a 40 year old virgin either.

Praying the Lord's prayer is a good idea, but you need to figure out what it means and be sincere. You can also read the Four Gospels, which includes the Lord's prayer and provides extra context. Understanding the red words is extra important. You can also read some Psalms and pray them if that's your bread and butter. I don't think there's anything wrong with that. Tbh i have a hard time actually praying and reading the Bible as well, but it is a discipline.

 

[FrogKing]

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