i really dont want to become a trucel, mind you. But I just feel terrible about myself when I see a couple.
So, you feel terrible for your own lonely situation when they come into your sight? I hate to be blunt, but whose fault is this situation? They're minding their own business while you're boiling your heart in jealousy at their joy. Whores'll always be present in society for as long as the modern era continues to be strangled to death with degeneracy, and that presence will only end when God returns, but let us think, then, why did God place us here, in these times, of all times?
A millennia ago, we'd both have marriages arranged for us to precious wives right now. Don't you think, then, that just as God had a reason for the Earth's formation, and for your birth itself, for you to serve Him, that He also intended for you to serve Him
through these challenges? Women of good character are sparse, but that is the crux of this particular will of the divine.
This
strife is for
us to
struggle in. It is the intention of the Godhead. Why must we reject that challenge of His? Did your own prophet reject and flee from the combat he faced in Badr? Did he wander back in his cave to wallow in cowardice when he was faced with the Hijrah? When his banners reached the extents of Hejaz, did he return to Mecca and say "that's enough"?
Why, then, must you or I back down in this modern social battle of finding a proper lady? Referencing again your Islamic faith, this is
our Badr! We are outmatched by substantial whoredom and degeneracy constantly surrounding us, yet triumph is always near with the blessing of The Lord! I found my own love after a month of continued put-offs, always saying "ah, I'll ask her next week, I'm too nervous to do it this week" for
so many weeks back in November of last year, yet that was only after
so many months of longing for a woman such as her to even grace my sight. It was
patience that guided me most, and I implore you let it guide you as well.
So, brother, what I'm telling you here is not to let that passion of hatred keep boiling your heart until it blackens into an unlovable clump of ash. Turn it into patience, into near-fantasy, yet not total fantasy. Acknowledge and admire the blessings that God has given you today, and think with joy of what He'll bless you with in the coming times of your life. You
will find a lady to love. She is out there, and no matter how slow the hand of God may seem as it pokes her along in your direction, His timing is perfect. That is all that I can tell you.
