/calm/ How would you handle a kid like this(VIOLENCE WARNING AND SEVERE AUTISM)

I have a brother who's like this and I'm being dead serious when I say he has only had negative impacts on my family
in the 20 fucking years he's been alive he has only caused pain and inconvenience to my family and there have been more than 30 instances of him beating either my mom or sister (who is literally 9 years old) because he didn't get something he wanted
he literally smashed my fucking door open while I was napping and the lock doesn't work anymore because of him
my dad wants to keep him away from us at a residential place but my mom keeps stopping my dad from doing anything
 
jeffCChudderson said:
We used to be able to ship these people off to asylums. I'd institutionalize him if I had the money, otherwise I'd set him up to do something really bad so he gets sent to prison or a government ward.
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Most mental institutions are absolutely dreadful and even if people like this are really really dumb they're still people and they still feel distress in those situations (applies to orphanages in many cases as well). Mental institutions need to be improved and then yeah I'd say I'd probably have him institutionalized as well.
 
doedoedoedoedoedoedoedoe said:
I have a brother who's like this and I'm being dead serious when I say he has only had negative impacts on my family
in the 20 fucking years he's been alive he has only caused pain and inconvenience to my family and there have been more than 30 instances of him beating either my mom or sister (who is literally 9 years old) because he didn't get something he wanted
he literally smashed my fucking door open while I was napping and the lock doesn't work anymore because of him
my dad wants to keep him away from us at a residential place but my mom keeps stopping my dad from doing anything
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had it not been for his violent outbursts and frequent beating of my mom and sister (mind you he doesn't attack me or my dad because he knows there'll be consequences if he hits us) i wouldn't have these feelings towards him
i've almost called 911 because he beat my mother so badly i was contemplating getting the police involved
as much as i believe my brother is a human being he is the singular reason i think eugenics are a good idea because he has only ever caused harm to our family
my sister for literal months was scared of my brother because he beat her over something that mind you could've been done another day
i fucking hate my brother because of how much of a violent piece of shit he is towards my family and he had to be transferred out of the ONLY high school in my city because he groped a girls breasts while special ed staff weren't looking
he has gotten my family into so much shit that it makes me angry he even exists
 
doedoedoedoedoedoedoedoe said:
had it not been for his violent outbursts and frequent beating of my mom and sister (mind you he doesn't attack me or my dad because he knows there'll be consequences if he hits us) i wouldn't have these feelings towards him
i've almost called 911 because he beat my mother so badly i was contemplating getting the police involved
as much as i believe my brother is a human being he is the singular reason i think eugenics are a good idea because he has only ever caused harm to our family
my sister for literal months was scared of my brother because he beat her over something that mind you could've been done another day
i fucking hate my brother because of how much of a violent piece of shit he is towards my family and he had to be transferred out of the ONLY high school in my city because he groped a girls breasts while special ed staff weren't looking
he has gotten my family into so much shit that it makes me angry he even exists
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scary
 
doedoedoedoedoedoedoedoe said:
had it not been for his violent outbursts and frequent beating of my mom and sister (mind you he doesn't attack me or my dad because he knows there'll be consequences if he hits us) i wouldn't have these feelings towards him
i've almost called 911 because he beat my mother so badly i was contemplating getting the police involved
as much as i believe my brother is a human being he is the singular reason i think eugenics are a good idea because he has only ever caused harm to our family
my sister for literal months was scared of my brother because he beat her over something that mind you could've been done another day
i fucking hate my brother because of how much of a violent piece of shit he is towards my family and he had to be transferred out of the ONLY high school in my city because he groped a girls breasts while special ed staff weren't looking
he has gotten my family into so much shit that it makes me angry he even exists
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>he knows there'll be consequences if he hits us
Do you not hit him when he hits your mom/sister? Or do you just restrain him.
 
doedoedoedoedoedoedoedoe said:
had it not been for his violent outbursts and frequent beating of my mom and sister (mind you he doesn't attack me or my dad because he knows there'll be consequences if he hits us) i wouldn't have these feelings towards him
i've almost called 911 because he beat my mother so badly i was contemplating getting the police involved
as much as i believe my brother is a human being he is the singular reason i think eugenics are a good idea because he has only ever caused harm to our family
my sister for literal months was scared of my brother because he beat her over something that mind you could've been done another day
i fucking hate my brother because of how much of a violent piece of shit he is towards my family and he had to be transferred out of the ONLY high school in my city because he groped a girls breasts while special ed staff weren't looking
he has gotten my family into so much shit that it makes me angry he even exists
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Oh shit you are the "My retarded brother ruins my entire family's life" guy from the sharty! I remember!
 
DonutHole said:
>he knows there'll be consequences if he hits us
Do you not hit him when he hits your mom/sister? Or do you just restrain him.
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my mom yells at me whenever i hit him back but i'd rather suffer the consequences than watch my mother get beaten
 
Soynic Hedgehog said:
Oh shit you are the "My retarded brother ruins my entire family's life" guy from the sharty! I remember!
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i've only posted about my brother on the sharty i think like twice dough
could be some other guy but i dont remember my post history geg
 
doedoedoedoedoedoedoedoe said:
she's a sweetheart and i love my mom but she defends my brother too much and it makes me upset
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it's natural honestly, a good mother should want to love her child despite his problems. the issue is that a lot of mothers (mine included, admittedly) don't stand their ground and give in most of the time to their angry kids. it's harder than you think to find a balance between being too nice and being cruel.
my mom almost always bought me stuff (not major things, usually small toys or candy) even when i misbehaved as a child and i wish she didn't
 
NT said:
it's natural honestly, a good mother should want to love her child despite his problems. the issue is that a lot of mothers (mine included, admittedly) don't stand their ground and give in most of the time to their angry kids. it's harder than you think to find a balance between being too nice and being cruel.
my mom almost always bought me stuff (not major things, usually small toys or candy) even when i misbehaved as a child and i wish she didn't
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It all makes sense now
 
Also, since I'm not a woman I would be much harsher. It seems like she's literally so much smaller than him that he can kill her with barely any difficulty and who's to say he won't if he doesn't get his Applebee's door on Wednesday? I'd beat him if he ever hit me, that's for sure
 
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